Chastity devices may sound like something from generations past, but they are quite common in the BDSM world of today. Both men and women are made to wear these chastity devices for a variety of reasons.
In some instances the device is worn as a part of training. It helps to teach control to the submissive over their desires and their bodies reaction to it. Doms will also utilize chastity devices as a form of discipline and punishment. Sometimes, however, it is simply a part of the role play.
When a dom is merely using the device as a method of teasing and taunting the sub, it will generally only be worn in the confines of the role playing scene and most often at home. But sometimes a sub is asked to wear their device when they are out in public during their normal day. This means having to place the device underneath the clothing. That is where many people get confused and need help.
How do you wear a male device, most often a cage, underneath your everyday attire? Well, there are a few tips that can help you do that with ease.
Choose your device
Buying a male chastity device or a cock cage is not as simple as picking out what looks nice and taking it home. Well, sometimes it can be. But overall, it is much like anything else. You will have to try it out and see how it works for you. Not every device is created equally. Also, every penis is not the same. When you pick out your device you want to keep in mind where it will be worn.
Longer devices make it a little more difficult and uncomfortable to sit for extended periods. If you have a desk job during the day you might want to opt for a shorter model. It’s also important to remember that if the device is metal and the key is metal it could create a slight clanging noise. Take that into consideration during purchase as well.
Types of clothing
Some people will find that certain clothes are less comfortable with their chastity device. Many men forgo jeans and the like because of the discomfort it creates in their groin area. This doesn’t mean that you can’t wear it. In fact, you can wear anything that you would like to wear. Your comfort is the only issue when it comes to blending a chastity device and clothing.
The best way to make sure that everything fits together smoothly is to actually try various clothes on with the device. Some people prefer to have it looser in that area and will wear their device to try on and buy new clothing. This ensures that when you are wearing the device you do not have to worry about your clothing interfering.
The likelihood of anyone noticing your device beneath your clothing is small. So worry more about your own comfort levels than you do about what others think.
You will find as you wear your cock cage chastity you will have to get used to a few adjustments. There will be a continuous pressure in that area that will become second nature eventually. But at first it will feel a bit different. Your testicles may need to be adjusted more often than you normally do. The slight pressure against your penis will feel different and potentially uncomfortable for a bit before it starts to feel good. There is potential for other things to bother you, but for the most part you will adjust and find that walking around with a chastity device is actually enjoyable to you. If that’s your kind of thing.